My Blog for Life

I encoded it and found it interesting. I printed one hard copy of it and kept it, thinking that maybe I can use it one day.  I found it last year in my closet while I was cleaning our house and decided to put it on my working desk. Whoever saw it on my desk will read it and always have the same impression that it was a good one. Others will ask me to have them a copy as their guide in their marriage. I found it useful too, because whenever me and my hubby are having a misunderstanding I always remember the rules and it was effective. Our misunderstanding doesn’t take a long time.

Now that I am sitting in my desk, thinking of what to write on my blog, I noticed this note and decided to share it here in my blog.

Here it is the 10 Rules of Happy Marriage: 

1.  Never both be angry at the same time.
2.  Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3.  If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4.  If you have to criticize do it lovingly. 
5.  Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6.   Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
7.  Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8.  At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life’s partner.
9.  When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
10.  It takes two to make a quarrel and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

A view from my desk

I hope you’ll find this useful.